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100 Questions to Get to Know Your Partner Better
BY HEMANT CHENAULT
CO-FOUNDER OF NEMLYS APP
september 29, 2024
Welcome to the ultimate list of get to know you questions for couples! Whether you're just starting out or have been together for years, these questions will help you uncover new layers of each other. Get ready to laugh, share, and connect like never before with Nemlys.
Basic Getting to Know You
Kick off your conversations with these essential questions designed to reveal the foundation of your relationship.
- What is your favorite way to spend a weekend together?
- What was your first impression of me?
- What’s one thing you’ve always wanted to try as a couple?
- How do you define a perfect day with your partner?
- What are your favorite memories from our time together?
- What is your favorite date that we've been on?
- How did you know you wanted to be with me?
- What qualities do you admire most in each other?
- What's the most surprising thing you've learned about me?
- How do you like to celebrate special occasions?
Life's Little Joys: Questions on Simple Pleasures
Explore the small things that bring happiness to your lives with these delightful questions.
- What’s your favorite meal to cook together?
- Do you prefer morning coffee dates or evening tea time?
- What’s a simple activity that always makes you happy?
- Do you have a favorite shared hobby?
- What’s your favorite way to relax after a long day?
- What little things do you appreciate most in our daily lives?
- How do you like to unwind on a lazy Sunday?
- What’s your favorite scent that reminds you of us?
- Do you enjoy watching sunsets or sunrises more?
- What’s a small gesture that always brightens your day?
Core Values & Beliefs
Delve deeper into each other's values and beliefs with these thoughtful questions.
- What values are most important to you in a relationship?
- How do you handle disagreements about core beliefs?
- What role does spirituality play in your life?
- What are your thoughts on work-life balance?
- How do you prioritize honesty and transparency?
- What ethical principles guide your decisions?
- How important is family to you?
- What are your beliefs about financial management?
- How do you view the concept of success?
- What causes or issues are you passionate about?
Goals & Ambitions
Share and align your future aspirations with these insightful questions.
- What are your short-term goals as a couple?
- Where do you see us in five years?
- What personal ambitions do you have that you want to achieve together?
- How do you support each other's career goals?
- What dreams do you want to fulfill as a team?
- What are your long-term aspirations for our relationship?
- How do you envision our life together in the future?
- What milestones do you want to reach together?
- How do you plan to achieve our shared goals?
- What new skills would you like us to learn together?
Communication Styles
Enhance your communication by understanding each other's styles with these questions.
- How do you prefer to resolve conflicts?
- What is your favorite way to express love?
- How do you like to receive feedback?
- What communication habits do you want to improve?
- How do you handle stress in conversations?
- Do you prefer texting or talking in person?
- How often do you like to check in with each other?
- What makes you feel heard and understood?
- How do you express your needs effectively?
- What can I do to communicate better with you?
Personal Growth & Self-Reflection
Encourage mutual growth and self-awareness with these introspective questions.
- What personal goals are you currently working on?
- How do you think we’ve grown together?
- What’s something you’ve learned from our relationship?
- How do you handle personal setbacks?
- What motivates you to improve yourself?
- What areas of your life do you want to develop further?
- How do you support each other's personal growth?
- What lessons have you learned from past relationships?
- How do you practice self-care?
- What inspires you to be the best version of yourself?
Happiness & Fulfillment
Discover what truly makes each other happy and fulfilled with these engaging questions.
- What activities bring you the most joy?
- What does fulfillment in life look like to you?
- How do you find happiness in everyday moments?
- What are the little things that brighten your day?
- What makes you feel appreciated and loved?
- How do you pursue your passions?
- What achievements are you most proud of?
- What kind of experiences do you want to have together?
- How do you define a happy relationship?
- What can we do to enhance our mutual happiness?
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